The person with the greatest stock in your life is going to be your spouse, and it doesn’t just happen even though it ought to be practiced completely; it is a learned unity through baby steps to get to that point. Unity can be like a wave in the ocean, sometimes you’re riding high above and surfing it together, and other times your spouse is looking down as you’re drowning under a wave while you’re traveling through a season of disunity. Always work toward unity as a couple, and if you find you are out of sync work that much harder to move to a position of unity. It is something, though, that takes two willing partners.